The Lord gave this word to me recently and I would like to share it with you. I think it will apply to all of us.

Offense... it is the weapon that the enemy uses the most against my people.
This is so damaging to your spirit and soul.  It takes you  away from my Presence and Grace.  You see, this is what he seeks, to move you out of My Presences and away from the Born Faith in ME.  He is the lion roaring and waiting for this opportunity to come and steal what has been given to you freely and by the Blood of the Lamb.  Do not give him that opportunity and harbor an offense in your heart because this is one of the strongholds that will take you away.  He does not have any power  over you  unless you give it to him by staying in the  offense.  Repent and walk away.  I will make you stronger and be with you.  Ask me for my help and I will give it to you.  You will fall out of GRACE  when you hold this in you, this is not a word or feeling this is a spirit that will attach to you and only in repentance and washing of the blood will you be free.  Every day  there will be opportunities for you to get offended but do not let this stop you from the most important thing in your life, your SOUL, that’s what he is after.